Clarification

I received a email from a reader yesterday that was filled with accusations and vulgarity.  I can only guess to the identity of the writer but from the way it was written I surmise that it is someone close to my sperm donor.  I will not repost the message as I will give no credence to anything that was written in it.  It was filled with lies that have been told and retold for years; all in a attempt to cover up tracks and heap shame on the wrong person.  The only point I will take up is this:  I do not use this blog as a "public whipping post" for Steve.  He pops up in random posts because of the irreversible damage he did to me.  If I wanted to make this "family affair" really public; all I would have to do is post personal information and documents proving everything I have ever accused him of.  I do not think that it is in the best interest for anyone involved for me to have to do that.  BUT as I have said time and time again- push me.  Keep pushing me and see what happens.  I have been kind in my retelling of the facts and have left out the large majority of what the main underlying issue is.  But I don't care anymore; if I keep getting the emails and the comments regarding MY posts about MY experiences, then I will lay ALL the cards out on the table.  I WILL use full names.  I WILL post police and court documents.  I WILL not be silenced by idle threats.  I WILL drag you through the mud and I WILL turn this into a public whipping post if the shit does not stop.  Was 17 years not enough abuse - must we continue it?  To the writer of the email; a few points.  First, spelling and grammar are key.  Pretend you didn't drop acid all though high school and write like an adult does.  See the proceeding paragraphs for help.  Secondly, if you are stupid enough to believe his lies and fall for all the smoke and mirrors - you to are dead to me.  Thirdly, you know nothing.  You were not there - (I am assuming; unless it is SD) so telling me that I made it up is a little fucked up.  Lastly, anyone can hide behind a fake email address.  It takes an adult - a MAN, to say things like that to my face.  So princess, whoever you are; either STFU and move on or prepare yourself for a VERY PUBLIC flogging of Steve (aka SD sperm donor).  I do not like threats even childish ones like yours.  This is my place to write my feelings and thoughts.  You do not need to come to this particular page on the internet.  There are billions more; visit them.  Here, I invoke my 1st amendment rights so if you don't like it; take your eyes elsewhere.

Back to normal blogging tomorrow.  Sorry for the blip - but it needed to be addressed as it was one of many I have been receiving.  Hope that clears things up for everyone and I don't need to make a trip to the courthouse.  But I will if need be.

Live, Laugh, Love! <3
~~~~Effy